Siddiqua

What is feelings? I really didn't know what is it. But when I understood the feelings towards someone it's actually happened. No matter how good he or she is but when feelings doest match u can't explore your lovable personality. Whenever you like someone either you like that person at the same time or you like after some time.or maybe you never like it.  For eg: When we go shopping without any plans and we don't know what to take and what not, then we suddenly see something and like that particular thing.  But at that time we do not think about quality. But on the other hand when we go shopping for planning what to buy and what not, we often do not get that thing.  Sometimes even after struggling, we get that thing but we dont get that quality what we want.  That's why we often get confused about what is good or what is bad. What should we do when we confused between right or wrong things: Just like this, the same thing happens with our life. Th

Sunne me kitna negative lagta hai naa or excitement bhi mgr kya hota hai is friend with benefit ka real meaning. Maine friend with benefit ko samjhane ki kafi koshish ki magar mujhe abtk samjh nhi aaya ki friend with benefit hai kya. Khair mere liye friend Wahi hai jo apki hr acche bure me sath me gussa aye to gussa dikha le, gali dene ka mann h to gariya le, hasne ka dil kare to has le, na hasne ka dil kare to ro le jo chahe kare bus bkchodi krña kbhi na kam kare or sabse khas bat in sabke sath us dost ke liye feelings hona zaruri hai.  Aajkal kisi dost ke liye ya kisi partner ke liye shayad hi feelings dekhne ko mile qki hamare aas pas sirf or sirf jhute log hai jhuti Vibes ya fir yu kah le ki dikhawe ki dosti, dikhawe ka pyr, dikhawe ka rahan sahan sb kuch dikhawa sirf isliye taki hmara ek alg hi status logo ke bich dekhne ko mile. Kuch log is attitude ko cool bhi samjhte hai magar mujhe is dikhawe or jhute rishton ke piche hamesha hi compromise, agreement ya fir mjburi jaisi feelin

mujhe samjh nahi ata ki parents aksar ladkiyo ke liye itna pareshan kyu rahte hai specially tab jb wo us age me ati hai ki use duniya samjhni shuru hi ki hoti hai, jaha use duniya dekhne ki umar hoti hai, azad hoker fizao me chillane ka mann karta waha use rishton me bandhne ki baat kyu krne lgte hai. Ldkiyo ko shadi ke liye aise taiyar kiya jata hai jaise ki sb kuch shadi hi ho. Rishte ke liye photos to aise aise dikhaye jate hai jaise ki uske liye ladke nhi bus murgi halal karne ke liye ek kasai chahiye. Fir agar koi ladki ldke ko reject krti hai to uspe ungliyan uthani shuru ho jati hai, use ye ehsas dilaya jata hai ki sb kuch life me perfect nahi milta kuch na kuch to sacrifice karna hi padta hai. Mujhe samjh nhi aata why always girls sacrifice her dream her opinion her way of styles. Ye sare sacrifices ke tabu ladko pe kyu nahi lagte unhen kyu nahi sikhaya ya btaya jata hai ki sacrifice wo bhi kr skte hai. I know har koi perfect nhi hota hame perfect banana pdta hai bt my question