mujhe samjh nahi ata ki parents aksar ladkiyo ke liye itna pareshan kyu rahte hai specially tab jb wo us age me ati hai ki use duniya samjhni shuru hi ki hoti hai, jaha use duniya dekhne ki umar hoti hai, azad hoker fizao me chillane ka mann karta waha use rishton me bandhne ki baat kyu krne lgte hai. Ldkiyo ko shadi ke liye aise taiyar kiya jata hai jaise ki sb kuch shadi hi ho. Rishte ke liye photos to aise aise dikhaye jate hai jaise ki uske liye ladke nhi bus murgi halal karne ke liye ek kasai chahiye. Fir agar koi ladki ldke ko reject krti hai to uspe ungliyan uthani shuru ho jati hai, use ye ehsas dilaya jata hai ki sb kuch life me perfect nahi milta kuch na kuch to sacrifice karna hi padta hai. Mujhe samjh nhi aata why always girls sacrifice her dream her opinion her way of styles. Ye sare sacrifices ke tabu ladko pe kyu nahi lagte unhen kyu nahi sikhaya ya btaya jata hai ki sacrifice wo bhi kr skte hai. I know har koi perfect nhi hota hame perfect banana pdta hai bt my question is why always girls or women take responsibility for this type of sacrifices. Ldko ko wo sb milta jo unhen chahiye hota hai unke dreams unke carrier unki choice unki psnd fir 30 ki age me 20 ki age ki ldkiya bhi chahiye. Mujhe ye samjh nhi ate ki in ldko ko immature ldkiya to samjh nahi ati fir ye ready kaise ho jate hai immature ldkiyo se shadi ke liye. Mtlb yar chahte kya hai ye log samjh hi nhi aata. Bahar hal chale ab jb immature ldkiyo ki shadi ek mature ladke se ho bhi jati hai to fir kya hota hai, jaisa ki hame ye gyan diya hi jaata hai ki ldki agr nasamjh hai or uski shadi ek smjhdar insan se kr di jae to wo shadi ke bad smjhdar ho hi jati hai to un sabhi parents ke liye ye kahna chahungi ki wo samjhdar nhi hoti hai shadi ke bad unki halat kuch aisi ho jati hai jaise ki periods ka achank se ajana jiski koi preparation nahi ki jati hai. Sometimes parents need to understood ki uski ldki kya ek relationship ko nibhane or sambhalne ke liye taiyar hai. Marriage is not a joke jise krne ke bad smjhi jae balki for my opinion shadi be like ki pahle samjhiye or fir kijiye. I think parents ko ldkiyo ke liye unki shadi se zyda unke career ki fikr krni chahiye qki age chalke agr unke pas kuch bhi nhi rhta hai to unka career or unka future to secure hota hai. Ham hamesha se ldki ko dependent bna ke takhte hai phle father or fir husband wo khud pe depend kyu nahi rah sakti. Isiliye kahi na kahi society ladki ko bojh samjhne lg jati hai kyunki wo khud pe dependent nhi hoti so jaha tak mera manna hai ldki ki shadi ho ya na ho fark nhi pdta ldki ko educated focused or ambitious banana har parents ki zimmedari honi chahiye.
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