Sunne me kitna negative lagta hai naa or excitement bhi mgr kya hota hai is friend with benefit ka real meaning. Maine friend with benefit ko samjhane ki kafi koshish ki magar mujhe abtk samjh nhi aaya ki friend with benefit hai kya.
Khair mere liye friend Wahi hai jo apki hr acche bure me sath me gussa aye to gussa dikha le, gali dene ka mann h to gariya le, hasne ka dil kare to has le, na hasne ka dil kare to ro le jo chahe kare bus bkchodi krña kbhi na kam kare or sabse khas bat in sabke sath us dost ke liye feelings hona zaruri hai.
Aajkal kisi dost ke liye ya kisi partner ke liye shayad hi feelings dekhne ko mile qki hamare aas pas sirf or sirf jhute log hai jhuti Vibes ya fir yu kah le ki dikhawe ki dosti, dikhawe ka pyr, dikhawe ka rahan sahan sb kuch dikhawa sirf isliye taki hmara ek alg hi status logo ke bich dekhne ko mile. Kuch log is attitude ko cool bhi samjhte hai magar mujhe is dikhawe or jhute rishton ke piche hamesha hi compromise, agreement ya fir mjburi jaisi feelings hi dekhne ko mili.
Mujhe akser wo log samjh nahi aate jo apne partner ya apne dost ke bare me wo sb jante hue bhi unse sirf isliye kuch nahi khte ki kahi wo use kho na de, usse dur na ho jae, shyd wo sach ko accpet hi nahi karna chahte hai. Or jab koi insan unhe sachai dikhane ki koshish krta ki aap aise nhi ho jo ap bn rahe ho to akser hi use ye kahkar ignore kr diya jaata ki tum update nhi ho, tumhari mentality problem hai. Asal me problem usme nhi hai jo apko sachai se rubaru kara raha hai problem to usne hai jo sach sunna hi nhi chahta. Dost Wahi hai jo sach apko btae, dost Wahi hai jo ye samjhae ki aap kya ho na ki aapke haa me haa milaye, hmesha ek nazar se hi sbko dekhne se zyda zaruri ye h ki ap hat nazar se sbko dekhne ko koshish kare. Ap jo sochte hai zaruri nhi ki wo hmesha sahi hi ho, kyunki agr aap sahi hote to aap kisi ke sath galat na karte or agr ap galat hai to aap kisi ke sath sahi nahi kr skte baat thodi mushkil hai magar kahne ka mtlb sirf itna hai ki jo chiz galat hai use sahi na bnae or jo sahi hai use galat na bnae.
Hum kitne bhi advance, kitne bhi update ho jae magr apke pas rishte smjhne ka hunar zaruri hai. Kyunki kisi bhi relation me sirf aap akele nahi hote apke sath har wo shakhs juda hai jisse aapka connection hai. Be loyal and be real apne satisfaction ke liye don't play with anyone feelings.
Friend with benefit ka log matlb jo kuch bhi nikalte ho mujhe uski parwah nahi mujhe bus aaj ek baat realize hui hai ki kisi ke sath galt krke aap khud kbhi khush nahi rah sakte fir wo aap use jaante ho yaa nahi wo aapka kuch lgta ho yaa nahi the fact is who you are ? a fucking good bitch or a fucking heartless person for someone.
Mujhe khushi hai ki meri life me jo bhi Friend hai atleast real hai or sacche bhi fir chahe wo kitne bhi bade wale bastard kyu na ho. Lekin sabse zaruri bast hai ki Friend with benefit ke bare me aap kya sochte hai hame comment karke zarur btae.
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.. infact second last paragraph hit me hard... Good work keep it up 🙂